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(Please
note: The legal aspects are highlighted in a blue font and must
by law be included within the wedding ceremony.)
The
introduction can include a welcome to your guests. The
opportunity to introduce the members of the bridal party to your
guests as well as an explanation on the meaning of marriage
to yourselves.
This is
optional. Although the Bride's father usually gives her away,
other people may do so. Her mother may perform this ritual,
or both parents together. Other family members or friends may
also be requested to give the bride to the care of the Groom,
and the reciprocal may also be a consideration, with both
parties being given away to each others care.
It
is a requirement of the Marriage Act 1961, that I, your
celebrant use a given definition of my authority with which to
conduct the ceremony, and also the nature of the marriage
relationship. This wording will be explained at our interview.
This is also
an optional inclusion. Should you wish, I can ask each of you
whether you will take each other as husband and wife.
Traditionally - and oft heard response is usually "I do." Please
note that there is no legal requirement for this option and some
couples now skip this section.
The Bride
and Groom, exchange their vows and make their legal commitment
to each other.
The legal
requirements are for a minimum wording of...
"I call upon the persons here present, to witness that I, First
Name, Middle Name, Surname (Family name), take you, First Name,
Middle Name, Surname (Family name) to be my lawful wedded
wife/husband."
Exceptions
to this are, to leave the middle names (if applicable) out, or
under certain circumstances, it may be possible to use First
Name and Middle Name only. This can be done only if the couple
state their full names prior to the vows, usually stated during
the opening address.
This also is
an optional inclusion. It is not compulsory to exchange rings if
a couple prefers not to. For those who wish to exchange rings, I
provide a choice of prelude wording explaining the symbolism of
the wedding ring. A further ring blessing is also a
consideration. Some couples exchange other items at this point,
such as a rose, jewellery item, photograph or personal verse.
There are
rituals which may be incorporated into a ceremony, which
demonstrate or symbolise aspects of the commitment that
the Bride and Groom are making to each other. Couples marrying
with children may wish to include a family component, such as a
sand blending or candle lighting.
Readings may
be inserted as and where you would like. They may be self
penned, or chosen from a vast resource folder that I will have
to show you at our interview. Readings may be in the form of
poetry, verse or a statement from any relevant party. They may
be read by whomever you choose, your friends, family, yourself
or myself.
This will
include comments of good will for your future happiness and
prosperity and will conclude with a statement by myself
declaring you to be husband and wife. The usual final
response at this point is the sealing of your marriage with a
kiss. Cultural and individual wishes are considered within this
aspect.
A short time
out whereby the documentation is signed and witnessed, prior to
the final presentation and conclusion to the service.
Unless
otherwise discussed all couples are presented formally with
their certificate, addressed to their guests in the manner which
they are comfortable with, such as "It is now my pleasure to
present Mr and Mrs Surname or John and Mary, your happily
married couple.
The
opportunity to make a final bridal promenade as the couple lead
through the guests to the rear and accept congratulations at
that point will be discussed and coordinated during our prior
consultations. |